There is a website www . dontforgetyourtoothbrush . com
This site enables you to generate handy reminder lists of things you need to take/and to do before a trip.
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May I compliment you on your question. I think that this is a definate subject to write a book about and I will give it some considerable thought. There are certainly some subscribers to this site whose combined knowledge would make an interesting work.....Thanks Neil Dow.
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